i am feeling quite happy today..naaa, there is no reason behind it. Today is not my birthday, i have not got an appraisal today and neither has anybody sent me a box of chocolates or a bouquet of flowers today.Still, i am feeling very light hearted...the reason could be i do not have any tensions as such today, it could be that i did the work alloted to me at time last week, the reason could be i ate food cooked by myself today.....I am not able to pin point the reason, may be it is something which i have been taking for granted till date and may be today also as i am not able to know why i am happy today.
Happiness is lain within us and any miniature reason can act as a key to open the door of our happiness.....
So,be happy and enjoy life!!!!
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
relations
A relation is pure,simple and serene
When a relation is formed be it that of a sister-brother, friends, husband-wife or girlfriend-boyfriend,it requires both of them to change or weld so as to make the other person happy.The concept of "the other" should take the place of "self",but instead of changing,we start having expectations that the other person will change.
Expectations take a superseat and other things just vanish.The credit of this goes to human wants, we have the tendency to take,take and take.If we give even an iota of anything,we exaggerate it and want the other person to give us a magnified version of this.
Expectations take the seat of emotions.
percentage of love takes the seat of feelings.
I will not say that there are very few people who are lucky to have unconditional love because everyone of us is blesses with few very pure relations--the relations which we have with our parents, life partner, children and friends:)
When a relation is formed be it that of a sister-brother, friends, husband-wife or girlfriend-boyfriend,it requires both of them to change or weld so as to make the other person happy.The concept of "the other" should take the place of "self",but instead of changing,we start having expectations that the other person will change.
Expectations take a superseat and other things just vanish.The credit of this goes to human wants, we have the tendency to take,take and take.If we give even an iota of anything,we exaggerate it and want the other person to give us a magnified version of this.
Expectations take the seat of emotions.
percentage of love takes the seat of feelings.
I will not say that there are very few people who are lucky to have unconditional love because everyone of us is blesses with few very pure relations--the relations which we have with our parents, life partner, children and friends:)
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