Idiot, Officially :)

Came across an article in a newspaper some time back which gave the official definition of an "IDIOT".

The article mentioned that if you are -

1. unable to count till 20.

2. unable to list the days of the week.

3. Fail to remember the names of one's parents.

then you are fully eligible for holding the "coveted" title of an "IDIOT" according to our Honourable Supreme Court.

Now can anyone please expain how do the intelligent people sitting there get the time to make such decisions when so many cases are pending in the court. Our juducial system has perhaps the lowest ratio of the number of Judges to the number of people, and this is how we utilise our "already crunched" time.

Coming back to the topic, by the above definition, an "illiterate orphan" has one more degree with him, the degree of being an oficial idiot. The "illiterate" factor is enough for violating the first two conditions and the "orphan" factor makes him an ideal candidate for such an epithet.

Instead of helping these people, we are making new laws to clasify them further with such indignity.

i would sincerely want our Supreme Court to utilise its time in doing some work for the betterment of our country rather than wasting it in making useless laws.

give me a break!!!!!!!!!!!

Human nature is so unpredictable....it is an absurd thing..becoming so mean sometime and becoming so helpful the other time. Most of the people have a sadist approach towards life..they get hapiness by giving pain to others...they prove their own self worth by demeaning the other person. everyone is concerned with their ego , their respect, their worth, they have to prove to the world that they are the best in everything. i hate these intolerant people, i hate the way they behave, i hate the way they think themselves to be superior to everybody else.i want to live an an atmosphere where everybody respects the other, where endeavours are appeciated and not commented at.
i dont want to speak to people like these, i am not like them, i do not want to be like them and i cannot stand people like them.

posting after a lonnng time....heard a news right now that one more player of India won a bronze medal in the prestigious Olympics...wooowwww...finally we Indians are breaking the myths that we are a bunch of inactive creatures having no capabilities to strive for any activity...quite an elaborate way of saying things!!
Well, to look at it another way...is this win an act of accident..are the Gods too favourable for us or are the kundalis of these players in the right place at right time... Are we breaking the laws if inertia and going againgt nature???
Jokes apart, the victories in the Olympics would definitely be due to the hard work of the players and i m very proud of the achivements which these players are bringing to the nation..this victory was long awaited, but lets not let this victory be a "once in a blue moon" thing..lets work towards it more, lets believe in our players and lets put in more hard work so that we make the world believe that INDIANS ARE THE BEST!!!

m happy today :)

i am feeling quite happy today..naaa, there is no reason behind it. Today is not my birthday, i have not got an appraisal today and neither has anybody sent me a box of chocolates or a bouquet of flowers today.Still, i am feeling very light hearted...the reason could be i do not have any tensions as such today, it could be that i did the work alloted to me at time last week, the reason could be i ate food cooked by myself today.....I am not able to pin point the reason, may be it is something which i have been taking for granted till date and may be today also as i am not able to know why i am happy today.
Happiness is lain within us and any miniature reason can act as a key to open the door of our happiness.....
So,be happy and enjoy life!!!!

relations

A relation is pure,simple and serene
When a relation is formed be it that of a sister-brother, friends, husband-wife or girlfriend-boyfriend,it requires both of them to change or weld so as to make the other person happy.The concept of "the other" should take the place of "self",but instead of changing,we start having expectations that the other person will change.
Expectations take a superseat and other things just vanish.The credit of this goes to human wants, we have the tendency to take,take and take.If we give even an iota of anything,we exaggerate it and want the other person to give us a magnified version of this.
Expectations take the seat of emotions.
percentage of love takes the seat of feelings.
I will not say that there are very few people who are lucky to have unconditional love because everyone of us is blesses with few very pure relations--the relations which we have with our parents, life partner, children and friends:)

Girls!!!

Well, by no means do i intend to challenge any laws of Physics, as i have huge respect for them, but one thing is going in my mind since long which some what defies the law "Opposites attract".Whenever i happen to sit at a restaurant or caffeteria, most of the times i notice that Girls are looking more at other girls than handsome hunks around. They are more interested in knowing from where has the girl sitting infront of them bought the maskara she is wearing or how can bright red sandals go with shiney black trousers or how can the hair of a girl remain at the same position after going in a rickshaw.
Being a girl, i can vouch that we girls always have an affinity for the the stuff the other person posseses, the affinity could be positive or negative but an attraction ( or may be a repulsion) is always there.The funny part is that,the girl who is stared at (more by girls than than guys) always knows this and secretly basks in that glory and the next day she dresses up so that more eyes follow her (so called) fashion stetement (and you guessed RIGHT,the extra eyes were those of females!!!!!!!)

living for the sake of living

Sometimes we seem to be in a situation where everything around us seems to be non working. The options seem to be dried out but choice has to be made. Being in this situation is the most dreadful thing and i am passing this stage right now. I am unable to decide what my future is going to be, where will i be in the next 5 years. I am working in a very respectable company with pretty decent standards,but why i am not happy here, why do i want to get out of this place as soon as possible. May be it is my ambition which is driving me to move out of this place, may be i am overrating my self, may be i am not sure what i want to do........
only i can get myself out of this thing, i have to decide which path i have to choose.For that i need to work very hard, but everytime i start working hard, i remember those times when i did not get the fruit of my hard work. I know this is a loser's attitude and i am just making a scrapegoat of my failures.
The only thing which can get me out of this is self confidence, self belief and believing that i am capable to doing much more.
God please give me the strength and courage to work hard and achieve things of which i am capable of. Please also give me the power to enjoy life and to appreciate the beautiful nature arouund us.
Please give me the power to decide the path of my life help me to sail through it.
Thanks :)

Being a day scholar!!

To clarify, i am not in college right now.I am working in am MNC for around 8 months now....but these days i am remebering my college days very much so i thought why not write a blog about it!!
My college life was not an exiting one.I was a day scholar,so was particularly away from all the gossips and exiting stuff,My college life revolved around going to college in the morning,taking those sleep inducing classes and return back to home.I had some friends who also belonged to the same category as I,therefore,most of my evening were either spent on phone or infront of the television.
At that time i thought i am happy to be not a part of the hostel,as i was comparatively away from politics,i got food in my room irrespective of the time i feel hungry,i live with my parents,i dont have to bother how much money i have at a particular time,i did not have to travel for all the occasions.Basically, i could be a part of crowd whenever i wanted and could very well isolate myself at any other moment.
But now i have left home.
I live on my own,where the responsibilities are far more.I have to earn my own money,travel on my own,cook myself....how much i miss my Mom's presence when i am very hungry but know tha before satisfying my hunger i have to go to the market to buy vegetable and to cook them.
i remember the unity in my classmates when they lived together,how much they care for each other,how much they make their friends a part of their families.
Those friends are friends for ever,they eat together,smile together,study together,take care of each other and form bonds that are present for a life time.
I wish i too get to live a chance of living that life, so tha i can understand the relationship between two persons in a better way!1

existence

Happy to exist in this Earth?
Obviously!!We get to live like Human beings,supposedly the most intelligent of the lot,we eat delicious food,see beautiful places,wear expensive clothes,and the list continues...
But is this life worth it?Is there nothing in the world which could be more enticing than this life?
Well,there has to be.There has to be a life where one is allowed to live freely,without any boundations,without any restrictions,without any expectations.
Our life is bound by these expections at every stage,right from the time we are born.
A child is born...expectation:He should be healthy,should look beautiful(at least better than that neighbour's child!!)
He goes to school...expectation:He should come first in class,should stand first in the class race
He grows up...expectation:should have a good job,again a better one than that neighbour
He marries...expectation:Girl should be very good looking,she should know how to cook the best rice curry in town,she should respect het in laws,should never come home late....the list in this case goes to infinity
He has children...same expectations when he was a child.
And the list continues...
Can you imagine a life without these expectaions, a life where everyone respects the other's decision and does not interfere with them stating what is right and what is wrong.
I am not saying that life would be better then,but the level of satisfaction to a human being would be more in this case.
He would be able to live life on his own terms,to be accountable for all his rights and all his wrongs, so that when he dies he is not left with any regrets like "What would life be IF i had followed my heart"
If nothing,living on our own terms could help us reduce the use of the big word ,IF,in our sentences