relations

A relation is pure,simple and serene
When a relation is formed be it that of a sister-brother, friends, husband-wife or girlfriend-boyfriend,it requires both of them to change or weld so as to make the other person happy.The concept of "the other" should take the place of "self",but instead of changing,we start having expectations that the other person will change.
Expectations take a superseat and other things just vanish.The credit of this goes to human wants, we have the tendency to take,take and take.If we give even an iota of anything,we exaggerate it and want the other person to give us a magnified version of this.
Expectations take the seat of emotions.
percentage of love takes the seat of feelings.
I will not say that there are very few people who are lucky to have unconditional love because everyone of us is blesses with few very pure relations--the relations which we have with our parents, life partner, children and friends:)