existence

Happy to exist in this Earth?
Obviously!!We get to live like Human beings,supposedly the most intelligent of the lot,we eat delicious food,see beautiful places,wear expensive clothes,and the list continues...
But is this life worth it?Is there nothing in the world which could be more enticing than this life?
Well,there has to be.There has to be a life where one is allowed to live freely,without any boundations,without any restrictions,without any expectations.
Our life is bound by these expections at every stage,right from the time we are born.
A child is born...expectation:He should be healthy,should look beautiful(at least better than that neighbour's child!!)
He goes to school...expectation:He should come first in class,should stand first in the class race
He grows up...expectation:should have a good job,again a better one than that neighbour
He marries...expectation:Girl should be very good looking,she should know how to cook the best rice curry in town,she should respect het in laws,should never come home late....the list in this case goes to infinity
He has children...same expectations when he was a child.
And the list continues...
Can you imagine a life without these expectaions, a life where everyone respects the other's decision and does not interfere with them stating what is right and what is wrong.
I am not saying that life would be better then,but the level of satisfaction to a human being would be more in this case.
He would be able to live life on his own terms,to be accountable for all his rights and all his wrongs, so that when he dies he is not left with any regrets like "What would life be IF i had followed my heart"
If nothing,living on our own terms could help us reduce the use of the big word ,IF,in our sentences